tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4912463842779590235.post271722168570129823..comments2024-03-05T21:32:25.178-08:00Comments on 266: How Can I Help You?266http://www.blogger.com/profile/16170707764904423302noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4912463842779590235.post-14684662984117639172010-01-15T19:51:46.617-08:002010-01-15T19:51:46.617-08:00I totally agree with you on this topic. Very well...I totally agree with you on this topic. Very well said. <br /><br />When they ask, I think you'd be a great friend to just tell them what you are doing and then let them take it or leave it. <br /><br />It definitely takes a person having their own desire to really change for it to work - I know it did me. <br /><br />And I laughed at "look forward to having a body they are so fed up with". I told a lady at school that just today after she was done complaining about how fat she was getting. For her the roll in her middle was bigger, but it was still smaller than mine. :)Leahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12777597846226977709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4912463842779590235.post-87899612320791032102010-01-14T21:20:14.680-08:002010-01-14T21:20:14.680-08:00I think you are absolutely right...maybe they are ...I think you are absolutely right...maybe they are tossing pebbles in the water.<br />Waiting to hear...<br />"Boy you could stand to lose a few"...from you.good job on saying nothing.<br />I'd let them bring it up. lol.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13708815560712267698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4912463842779590235.post-40419811588745146342010-01-14T14:40:34.012-08:002010-01-14T14:40:34.012-08:00I don't know but maybe they are asking for sug...I don't know but maybe they are asking for suggestions without really saying it. You ca always say that you are on your journey & what you have learned is that there is no miracle pill. IT is hard work, eating better & moving the bod. That tells them that if they are looking for advice from you, it means they better be ready to put the hard work into it! :-)Jody - Fit at 52http://www.truth2beingfit.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4912463842779590235.post-26539611939634684942010-01-14T14:21:17.124-08:002010-01-14T14:21:17.124-08:00I struggle with this a lot. So many people ask me...I struggle with this a lot. So many people ask me for support, motivation, and help. And I want to give it, too much of it!<br />But I can't WANT it more than they do for themselves. Just like you said, it has to be their own pivotal point to make them WANT it bad enough to make my help even apply to them.<br />But is very hard, listening to it. <br /><br />That was a long way to say.. I hear ya, sistah!<br />;-)Chai Lattéhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01237308695021434230noreply@blogger.com